{"id":529,"date":"2021-12-29T11:20:09","date_gmt":"2021-12-29T11:20:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/centarjoy.com\/?p=529"},"modified":"2021-12-29T11:20:12","modified_gmt":"2021-12-29T11:20:12","slug":"narcisoidnost-2-0","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/centarjoy.com\/index.php\/2021\/12\/29\/narcisoidnost-2-0\/","title":{"rendered":"NARCISOIDNOST 2.0"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>U poslednjih godinu dana mi se u praksu sve \u010de\u0161\u0107e javljaju osobe koje su u kontaktu sa narcisoidnim ljudima, bilo da su im to partneri, bilo da su roditelji, saradnici na poslu, ili \u010dak i prijatelji. Javljaju se za pomo\u0107 nakon dugog niza godina, a ponekad i decenija koje su provele u senci takvi osoba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>U pro\u0161lom \u010dlanku smo naveli tri glavne karakteristike narcisoidnog poreme\u0107aja li\u010dnosti, a to su: <em>ose\u0107aj grandioznosti, potreba za divljenjem i nedostatak empatije. <\/em>Da bi te svoje potrebe postigli, narcisoidni su izuzetno ve\u0161ti manipulatori. Jedna od ve\u0161tina manipulisanja drugim se naziva <strong><em>zamagljivanje<\/em><\/strong> \u2013 <strong><em>gaslighting<\/em><\/strong>. Naziv poti\u010de iz ameri\u010dkog psiho-trilera, koji nosi isti naslov iz 1944, u re\u017eiji Geogre Cukor-a, a gde suprug ube\u0111uje svoju suprugu da opa\u017ea pogre\u0161no, a to dovodi nju do ludila. Primer: Suprug skriva nakit, a ube\u0111uje suprugu da ga je izgubila. Tako \u0107e Vas osoba koja je narcisoidna ubediti da ste zapravo Vi bezdu\u0161ni, bezose\u0107ajni, da Vi koketirate, skloni ste preljubama, da ste Vi ljubomorni&#8230; Svoje negativne strane projektuju u Vas i ubede vas da te osobine oslikavaju Va\u0161u li\u010dnost. Vi budete na ivici ludila, jer se stalno preispitujete. Ose\u0107ate krivicu, jer verujete da Vi gre\u0161ite, da je problem isklju\u010divo u Vama. Sve dok se neko tre\u0107i ne ume\u0161a u za\u010darani krug, Vi sve dublje ponirete u toj spirali. Sve lo\u0161ije se ose\u0107ate. Pored strahova, mogu se razviti i paranoidne ideacije, koje stvaraju privid da ste smetnuli s uma. Organizam se u potpunosti iscrpi, te nije neobi\u010dno da osoba bude rezignirana i na kraju depresivnog raspolo\u017eenja. Naj\u010de\u0161\u0107e to bude momenat, kada tzv. \u017ertva potra\u017ei pomo\u0107 stru\u010dnjaka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Gaslight - Full Movie - GREAT QUALITY 720p (1940)\" width=\"1220\" height=\"915\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/UYmtzaHwCKo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Problem je te\u017ee re\u0161iti, \u0161to du\u017ee postoji. Na\u0161a patrijarhalna sredina pogoduje da \u017ertve \u0107ute, jer smatraju to za normalno. Stoga, kada se supruga nakon 20 godina nezdravog braka odjednom \u201eprobudi\u201c, bude problem za sve. Okolina se za\u010dudi, zapita. Neretko se de\u0161ava da je i osude i ne pru\u017ee joj podr\u0161ku. \u017dene dugo \u0107ute i trpe, jer smatraju da im je to u opisu posla. S druge strane, \u010desto one budu finansijski nesamostalne, te nemaju opciju za tek tako, preko no\u0107i, da napuste dom, u koji su ugradili sebe. Statistike govore da je prosek poku\u0161aja izlaska iz nezdrave veze: <strong>7<\/strong>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zahvaljuju\u0107i zamagljivanju, narcis dr\u017ei drugu stranu u \u0161aci. Samopouzdanje te osobe je poljuljano, maltene da ga i nema. Potreban \u0107e biti dug period da izgradi, da se stabilizuje. Jednom re\u010dju: da se osamostali! 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